I used to think that my dream is unachievable and that I will never ever be able to make it happen. I was right, because I always thought that it takes one person to realise the dream. ‘Asking for help’ was the perspective I had never considered.
In order to make my dream come true I turned to 54 persons for help. Asking for help isn’t a sign of weakness as many people thing. On the contrary, it’s a positive sign. It’s an evidence that the person asking for help is trying to develop, to progress and to evolve.
There are four steps to ask for help:
1- Change the mindset of ‘asking for help’ and look at it as a positive thing and as a sign of strength not weakness.
2- List all the questions you have and the help you need, write them down on a piece of paper.
3- Sort the points you listed whether it’s about knowledge, skills, emotional support, networking, mentoring, financial help or something else. Then identify who can offer you help in each point. Would it be free videos on the internet, a friend or a relative who has an experience in this field or do you need an expert to answer your inquiries or teach you a certain skill?
4- Offer help. Make it a deal with the universe that you will help and ask for help. Apply the laws of secret and you feel perplexed with the way it works. It’s magic